S as in Saudi – over and out. April 25, 2009Posted by Aella in Al Khobar, Bahrain, Bahrain Daily, Beirut, Blogroll, Culture, Don't - just don't, Dubai, Food, India, Indonesia, Iran, Israel, Karlskrona, Lebanon, Life, Manama, Music, Pakistan, Palestine, Pictures, Qatar, Quotes, Saudi Arabia, Saudi culture, Sweden, Tool, UAE, War, Whack, Work.
So. I have for quite some time been thinking about ending my blogging here at S as in Saudi. I have a lot to say but still nothing interesting to be honest. It has all been said. Been bitchin’, going on my rants, praising, celebrating, crying, whining and shit…
I have recently turned over a new leaf and I can see things quite a bit clearer and more focused when it comes to my life. I must say that, the years that I have been blogging here has been some of the hardest yet most interesting years of my life. I finally feel I can focus even if I don’t know exactly where I am heading. At least I know where I am not looking to head.
It has been an interesting journey where I started blogging to record the changes in my life and attitude and ended up a truly different person in a situation in which I never thought I would be in.
So I guess this is the last post here. I will keep the blog online for now and I will come back and hopefully read old posts and comments with a smile. It has been great getting all these comments from people all over the place. Some of you which I got to know a little more and some who only came once for whatever reason. I want to thank you all for your presence.
I will eventually be blogging elsewhere but it will be about a topic that I am passionate about. Who knows, we might meet again.
love to all of you out there
Yalla bye Bahrain real estate! January 4, 2009Posted by Aella in Bahrain, Culture, Dubai, India, Lebanon, Manama, Pakistan, Qatar, Saudi Arabia, Saudi culture, UAE, Whack, Work.
Today I resigned from my position as a sales associate in the real estate company that I worked for. Khallas, I had enough of it and really can’t run around like a mad person doing it anylonger. The market is down big time but I must say this is not the only reason why I left since the company I worked for has a steady stream of clients wanting to rent apartments, offices and villas.
I just had enough. It has been both a great and dreadful year. I met many funny, interesting, sweet and kind people but also many seriously creepy people that wasted plenty of my time and unfortunately I have been blessed with too much patience.
The real estate market in Bahrain is in no way regulated so it is jungle to say the least. I think everyone can agree that anyone and everyone here is as an agent. From the watchman, to grandpa Abdullah, to the stray cat , to the ice cream man. A client often has many agents and things can get kind of messy in the end of who should have the commission since the same property can be shown by many agents.
There are not such word as ethics, standards or morals in the real estate market here. Agents steal each others clients, companies refuse to pay commission and even fire agents once they realise they have made a lot of sales for the company (court case – shame on you ), people steal information from each other (clients and property data) and so on. In the middle of all this you got clients noticing the chaos in the market and desperately trying to play agents against each other by bargaining on commission rates (screw you – do you think we are the Red Cross?). Many people seems to think agents are charity workers that owes them their lives (even if they pay jack-all). Not to mention the owners of property that ask you to sell their property and once you are about to close the deal for them they suddenly increase the price :). That really makes us looks like asses when we tell the clients. Well suckers, you are stuck with your property now :). Can you feel the sweat as you are paying it off not being able to get rid of it as you planned muaahahaha!
There are a few companies that have set standards for how their agents can act and they also back up their agents in times of need. I welcome and applaud this. The market needs some hard ass rules and some serious people backing up agents and kicking their asses if they act irresponsibly.
I have a great interest in the real estate market here but since being a sales associate doesn’t really lead anywhere here and all of the above mentioned, I say yalla byeeeeeeee! Gimme a shout people if you hear of any interesting vacancies 😉 !
Oh, and Happy New Year!
Have a wicked 2009!
It has to be said December 30, 2008Posted by Aella in Israel, Pakistan, Palestine, War.
I hate Israel with all my being and all my heart. I hate it’s existence and everything it stands for. It is the most brutal nation on the planet and every person living there that claims to be decent should migrate and seek citizenship in other countries. They don’t have any right over this land and never did. People can argue and argue and argue that they built the country they call Israel but it was nothing theft. It sickens me and breaks my heart again and again to see all these innocent people being murdered by the Israelis. Hamas are no angels no and should be held responsible for their actions but should a mother of five daughters have to bury them all because the Israelis are animals? And the Arab nations 🙂 well ah they called in an emergency meeting I heard…for Friday :). That really sounds like an emergency meeting to me. What’s up guys? You busy planning how to spend your New Years Eve(and don’t give me BS that you don’t celebrate it)?
Culture clash Bahrain December 3, 2007Posted by Aella in Bahrain, Culture, India, Lebanon, Manama, Pakistan.
I must say living here sometimes is confusing. When I lived in Lebanon I met mainly Lebanese people and through them I learned about the culture, their habits, traditions and also parts of the spoken language. Now, in Bahrain it’s totally different. Here I daily meet people from several different cultures and I mean cultures that has hardly anything in common. People from India, Pakistan, Bangladesh, the Philippines, Bahrain and other Arab countries (I won’t mention the Western cultures cus I am quite used to them).
Now, I am not quite sure what I am trying to say here but ehm, what I mean is that it gets confusing trying to figure out the cultures from these different countries. For example, many Westerners I meet think that all Arab countries have the same culture. Nothing can be further from the truth of course. If you compare for example Lebanon and Saudi (since I have lived in both these places) you will find that these countries haven’t got much in common at all. When I meet an Indian for example they are quite different from my experience than say people from Bangladesh. I know the history of India, Bangladesh and Pakistan (not in detail) but still they are very different people in their own right.
I like to know some words and phrases of the people that I deal with on a daily basis but here I am faced with the prospects of having to learn some Tagalog, Hindi (or urdu even?), Bengali and of course also the Bahraini spoken Arabic (which I haven’t managed to pick up any words from yet). Do I sound like a sick person? Ah perhaps, but I do find it useful to know some basic phrases when dealing with people.
I must say it is confusing. One might say, but people speak English right. Well, that doesn’t really help when I really can’t understand what they are saying at times. I find for example the Indian accent really hard to understand. For some reason the Pakistani one is easier. I can stand like a question mark and say Uhm sorry what did you say when someone confidently explains to me that – No that’s not cheese it pudder! Pudder? This man laughed at me and say yes Pudder. I then carefully asked if hmm that was something Indian? He then laughed hard and went over to a cupboard and took out a box that had the letters B U T T E R written on them…. Aaaah butter!!!! I exclaimed in a really surprised voice feeling as if I had made a major discovery that should grant me some kind of a Nobel Prize..
Anyway, I guess in time I will have learnt some about living here.